About Heart

Sincerity Itself is obtained when the work is not appreciated ♥ Sincerity is understood when efforts is considered not important ♥ Learning to forgive is facilitated during heart broken  ♥ Toughness is faced when loneliness and  struck ♥ Learn about Heart generosity  when you have to pay which you should have not pay ♥

Practice Makes Perfect

"Life would have no meaning w/out good, sad & hard times. thx 4 all these years, nevr regret anything cause that's make me who I am now."

Indeed, what life already thrown at us makes us know how to deal with everything. Bitter or sweet, laugh and cry, makes us who we are.

We need only to stay positive and see things in different view or perspective. May that makes your soul at peace trough out this chaotic life.

Work is a Rubber Ball

Imagine life as a game in which u're juggling some five balls in the air. They are work, family, health, friends n spirit.

U will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If u drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls, family, health, friends n spirit are made of glass. If u drop one of these, they will irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered. They will never be the same. U must understand that and strive for it.



Work efficiently during office hours and leave on time. Give the required time to your family, friends n have proper rest.

Value has a value only if its value is valued

Women This Days

One of my friend is concern about women this days. In our culture in the old days, woman is suppose to be less independent. And this is because our culture that mainly patrilineal culture. Father which is the head of the family, has majority control of his family, so his wife is less influential in family decision making.

My friend here got an issue with this, mainly because his girlfriend turns out to be a very strong minded independent woman.  She has little concern about small stuff other than her works. She loves to work and looking for social networking. She often get stuck in work. And when that happen there will be no text message, no phone call to my friend. Although my friend here tries to be nice to her by texting her like "dont push your self to much, get some rest dear" or " have you eaten yet dear", often there are no reply.

This goes on and on. And this makes my friend have an opinion that woman this day does change. Despite the she has a very strong independent boss, which is a strong single mom, Woman has became more independent and lack of need of boyfriend. My friend is also a fan of this statement... Men are Logic Women are Feeling.. he like the harmony of Logic and Feeling became one.

Well, in my opinion, yes women are becoming more independent. That is because the social and economic pressure. If women is to dependent to men, i think they will miss a lot of fun they can have, or miss a lot of stuff they can buy. :-)

Now about his girlfriend, is a different view to look at. Although women tends to be more independent, they still need men. But looking to kind of relationship that they have... either my friend approach his girl with a wrong way (became too noisy), or his girl is not the right girl for him. And thats about it. There has nothing to do with women became more independent. So Move On My Friend!

The Beginning

Well I started this blog because of this social media boom. Facebook, Twitter, and Blogging are well spread now. 

Lot's of my friend and colleague are using those media, and sometime what they wrote provoke my opinion. I can agree or disagree with their opinion. So, this is the place for me to share what are I agree or disagree of. Of course there are no mentioning name here to protect my friend an colleague privacy.